Happy Harvest

In my home growing up – we celebrated Halloween to the full. I recall a few years my mom covered her face in green paint and wore a black outfit complete with a pointy witch’s hat. We gathered the neighbors and as a group went house to house to enjoy candy. Even living in upstate NY we still had to inspect all candy for rips or tears – breaking candy bars in half to make sure there were no needles hidden in the chocolate.

Today my family celebrates Halloween a bit differently. We celebrate the Fall Harvest. I do not decorate my home with scary witches, ghosts, or the Frankenstein I vividly remember my mom hanging around the house upon or demanding requests. Rather we decorate with pumpkins and scarecrows. We take the time to thank God for the bountiful harvest He continually provides in our lives. (you don’t have to celebrate a time of Thanksgiving only in November).

With all that said and feel good thoughts – my 7yr old still wants to go a bit spooky. So for our homeschool lesson in October we study the body. We find a skeleton to assemble and label the large bones. We discuss muscles and how a skeleton can not walk without muscles!

We review Ancient Egypt and read about the mummification process. And how the Egyptians took so much care of their dead because they had a different view of life after death – one completely void of Jesus. We also read about bat anatomy and habitats.

My son dresses up practically every single day of the year – I do not prevent him from putting on a costume when everyone else is enjoying it as well. We try to attend the local church’s “trunk or treat”, and usually go out for pizza after.

Last year my son begged his father to go trick or treating. They stayed away from the scary decorated homes and enjoyed meeting our neighbors. We were lucky to meet a family new to the neighborhood we would not have met otherwise. We have become wonderful friends!

To be honest, I hated trick or treating when my son was younger. I thought the scary decorations, inappropriate costumes were so unbelievable we would never partake in any of it. Ever. But after reading time and time again how Jesus went out among the people – and was a light in a dark place inspired me to use this opportunity to do something more than just gather candy.

We can reach out to our neighbors and see if they have a need they normally would not have opened their door to any other day of the week. We can pass out tracks or invitations to church! I realized I could not do any of those things hiding in a dark house with all the lights off pretending it wasn’t happening outside.

Regardless of how your family celebrates or does not celebrate Halloween, Fall Harvest – or whatever you call it – be lifting up prays of truth and safety over your children during this time.

“You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven” Matthew 5:14-16

Question: How can we celebrate during the fall harvest season?

Intentional September

By September most parents are either carpooling their children to school, sending them off early each morning to the bus stop, or working hard on their new homeschool curriculum. The days of picnic lunches, afternoon naps, cannonball contests, and balloon wars are slowly fading away as the sports practice and other after school activities kick up. Not to mention the church classes, Awana, scouting, etc.

So many great activities to participate – or worse, to glaze over the last few hours of evening together time with the “regular programming” of distractions that try to invade family time.

 This year as a family we have decided to keep the television off after dinner and spend our precious time engaging with each other. Rather than sign up for every activity under the sun we are only allowing our son to sign up for one.

We’d like to create quality time not just proximity time. One evening we will pull out that rusty Operation game with the annoying buzzer only because it makes my son hunch over in uncontrollable laughter. Every year for Christmas we buy one board game for the family. Now during family game night we have a few options, but still Operation brings the most laughs from everyone.

Another evening we will walk up to the tennis courts to get out that last little bit of our energy as we try to keep our 3yr old from stealing and stuffing tennis balls down his pants. Some nights we’ll bring the frisbee or football and play a game of toss which always ends with daddy as monkey-in-the-middle. (we do have to remind the monkey that it’s not tackle football too)

For fun we will also venture to the book store together and enjoy hunting for a new gem or even an old classic we have not read in ages. We like to sit on the floor to read these books together. No purchases required to enjoy your family. But maybe a shared coffee for the hard working mommy and daddy!

I can not forget to mention pizza movie night – coupons have long been saved and $1 movie rentals are on our horizon! We push the sofa out of the way of our living room and all topple down onto one enormous blanket and many pillows.

I recently asked a friend, “when it’s all said and done and your children are bringing your grandchildren back to visit – will you have any regrets”? I want to stand confident in knowing the time God blessed me with a family was spent investing into their lives not squandered away on myself.

Intentional parenting requires action – not reaction.

Deuteronomy 6:5-7 “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise”

 

Boy’s Senses (& a giveaway for you!)

 As school rolls around (officially) and I begin to plan our homeschool lessons a few things I’ve noticed about my children and our days together you might also enjoy:

Touch - My boys are not happy unless it’s hands on! Most boys are tactile. They love to build, sculpt, paint, and always knock it down! Word of advice – don’t be discouraged when they want to knock something down! Take your pictures fast before destruction mode kicks in. Crafts are definitely not just for girls. We save Huggies boxes, toilet paper rolls, and empty water bottles because you never know when a rainy day will strike and it’s time to build something “cool”! Or pull out blankets and sheets to build forts.

Sight – My 2nd grader wants to see everything. “Will you show me” is asked during every lesson. And not because he’s stalling, but the boy is visual. Most males are visual! I make sure we have a lot of reference books and internet ready images to provide visuals. Kid friendly magazines are great to have handy for “down time” or car rides. Word of advice – prepare your internet stuff before rather than Google images together. Unfortunately, inappropriate images pop up regardless of your search request.

Sound – My youngest son is definitely more auditory. He loves music, sounds, movement, instruments, etc. But everyone benefits from a “dance party”. Right about that time the boys are worked up enough and about to step over the line into the “ugly mommy end zone” – I turn up a favorite song as loud as I can and they boogie. Nothing is funnier than these moments. Easily turning potential time outs into hysterical enjoyment. Especially when daddy is around to bust out the Running Man. Word of advice – keep music easily available just to flip a switch and surprise them. Planning out dance time and hunting to find something can lead to your frustration.

Taste – My boys love snacks, what child doesn’t? (what mom doesn’t) We like to get creative and make snacks together. Put aside the prepackaged goldfish and spend some quality time in the kitchen. Word of advice – your son isn’t a chef so expect a mess and take into consideration time to cook. There are great memories to be had when you allow them in the kitchen and give them a spoon!

Above I underlined and wrote “most” because I have read a great book – Wild Things, the art of nurturing boys and it truly opened my eyes to see how I can relate better to my boys and how to better teach them!

Psalm 139:14 “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made”

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Summer Schooling

  In hopes of cultivating hearts that love to learn beyond week days, 3pm, and school schedules we decided to school year round.

We did take a short break in June for art camp, VBS, and visitors. But there are only so many things you can do outside in FL in the choking humidity, and rather than become beached whales, Lego maniacs, or Wii experts … we come inside for fun learning.

 Here are my summer schooling plans:

  • Television – put down the tv guide! Magic School Bus and National Geographic Really Wild Animals are packed full of facts and great DVDs for afternoon entertainment. I also enjoy the Tall Tales and Legends and Animated Hero Classics series. (you can find these at your library)
  • Internet games – enhance the dvd lessons! Hop to those websites and participate in the online games and quizzes. We also enjoy educational games like Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego. V-Smile and Leapster have great educational games too.
  • Mini unit studies – flying through curriculum is expensive. We make weekly trips to the library to discovery different types of animals, places, people, and time periods.
  • Magazines – we receive National Geographic Kids during the year. Over the summer I pull them out and do all the science projects and “fun” I didn’t have time to do during the school year.
  • Craft time – summer time is perfect for crafts. It is Popsicle season and paint dries faster in the summer!
  • Independence – the summer is a great time to learn all about our nation’s history. Each year we add onto the Revolutionary War, the people who impacted our history, and the events that lined up our freedom. The summer is a fun time to celebrate and get in July 4th red, white, and blue spirit all summer long.
  • Read It – we create a reading incentive. Think Book It Pizza Program on us. A chart is created, and reading is rewarded.
  • Supplements – I break out word hunts, crossword puzzles, and other “game” books. (Target has a great selection besides cheap ones from Amazon – buy a few and shelf them immediately – save them for the summer).
  • Board Games – even if there are no educational facts to memorize, we work on our character building traits like patience and good sportsmanship!
  • Pen Pals – we try to find one pen pal and write a letter twice per month during the summer. We also write letters to grandparents, and boy do they love it! (you’ll be forgiven for not coming to visit).
  • Audio Books – very nice to have on hand when you’re cooling down from the slip and slide.

 I encourage you to get creative and think outside the box. Better yet – get in the box and blast off to outer space for the day! Have fun learning – it’s summer ya know!

Isaiah 54:13 “All your sons will be taught by the Lord, and great will be your children’s peace”