It’s the Little Things…

Want a lesson in gratitude?

Just ask a four-year-old and two-year-old what they are thankful for throughout one whole month…

For God making us
Candy
Our house
Mommy
Daddy
Little J
Batman
Candy
Superman
Baby Lily
For God making the heavens
Train table
Apples
Waffles
Apple juice
Syrup
For God making everything
Candy
Grandmas and Grandpas
Thomas
Candy
Toy Story 3
Candy

It’s really not that hard. We have so much to be thankful for.

And gratitude really is in the little things.

Recognizing them and the One they ALL came from.

For all of this, and so much more, we give thanks.

And try our best to continue this life of gratitude on past its designated holiday.

Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever.

Psalm 107:1

What can we as mothers of boys do to encourage and develop a spirit of gratitude in our young men as a lifestyle, not just at the holidays?

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Ready to party Monday?!

Don’t forget the #celebrateMOB Twitter party THIS Monday, November 29th at 9:00 p.m. CST! We’ll be talking about creative ways to be more about GIVING and less about receiving this Christmas season – and passing this on to our children! Oh, and some fun prizes too! Check out the details and RSVP here!

Happy Thanksgiving

We’re taking a day off to give thanks to the Lord, for He is good.

Stories that Stir the Senses

For the past 3 years, my family spent Thanksgiving on a tropical island where the day looked like any other day: sunshine, trade winds, ocean views. Beautiful yes, but this born and raised Oklahoma girl’s idea of Thanksgiving-y weather?

Not so much.

But Thanksgiving has nothing to do with weather and everything to do with celebrating-embracing!-our God breathed blessings.

While I do what I can to foster Thanksgiving in our family no matter the time of year, this holiday calls for special-to-this-season traditions. Yes, our senses revel in the traditional togetherness of loved ones, mile-high piled food, Macy’s parades and football games. But we enjoy adding “stories” to engage our senses at Thanksgiving, too. Two stories we never tire of hearing:

The Legend of Squanto (Paul McCusker)

You may have heard that Squanto was an Indian who helped feed the Pilgrims. This is true and his help proved vitally important to the early Americans. But his life boasts an often tested, far-reaching faith that inspires. His very life is a story of Thanksgiving. More than once, Squanto finds himself caught in the conflict between the New World’s arriving European explorers and the Native Americans, and more than once God proved Himself faithful through this amazing man.

You may listen to a selection of the Focus on the Family produced audio drama here (part 1) and here (part 2) or order it in its entirety here. For a limited time, Focus is offering a free download of the entire drama, too!

The Popcorn Kernel Story

Our family begins Thanksgiving dinner by placing 5 corn kernels on each plate. The five kernels represent the dismal winter of 1623 when the Pilgrims, two years after landing at Plymouth, survived on a few grains of corn four or five days at a time. According to this article by Susan Roser, placing five kernels of corn on each dinner plate started in 1820 at Plymouth’s Bicentennial of the Pilgrim’s landing as a way to commemorate their ancestor’s plight. Today, families continue this tradition by beginning every meal with five kernels of corn on their plates as they recount this story. For our family, each kernel represents the opportunity to share a blessing received and enjoyed.

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This Thanksgiving and always, I pray you see abundant reasons to thank Him because every good gift is from Him (James 1:17). And if this Thanksgiving is a difficult one, I pray you find God’s provision in the middle of the gritty mess. He is there and everywhere and He loves you madly.

A Boy’s Truly Thankful Heart

It was a cold night by South Florida standards. We pulled out the footie sleepers, and the boys snuggled under their comforters, ready for bedtime prayers.

I reached over and tousled the red curls on #3 son’s sweet head as he prayed first. “Thank you for my warm bed. And help the homeless people to find a warm place to sleep tonight.”

I smiled through the lump in my throat and thanked the Lord for my son’s compassionate heart. Then I thought about the lesson he had just taught me.

Thankfulness is more than saying, “Thank you for…” True thankfulness moves beyond to the thoughts of others.

Don’t discount the value of teaching your sons about thankfulness. Realize that it leads to much more.

Being truly thankful means

  • I acknowledge that what I have comes from someone else.
  • I realize that I’m not entitled to it.
  • I’m aware that not everyone has that blessing.
  • I see the needs of others.
  • I care enough to pray and act on their behalf.

So, if you’re thinking, “What’s the big deal about Thanksgiving, gratitude, and thankfulness,” think again. If you’re saying to yourself, “I don’t have time for this. They’ll get it – they’ll catch it. How can they miss the value of thankfulness at Thanksgiving time,” read that list again.

Emphasizing thankfulness, even in the small things, teaches much bigger lessons and cultivates fertile ground for the future.

For now, major on the minors – do the little things it takes to cultivate your sons’ thankful hearts – and realize that you’re laying a strong foundation for a compassionate, giving, selfless heart in the days to come.

What are you doing this month to cultivate thankfulness in your household?